This is nicola. We have decided on a definitative list of qualities a guy must have to be attractive. Voila.
PS - (ana) i will laugh if me n nici return to australia and all the boys we know suddenly have perfectly cut toe nails hahaha (see below its one of the qualities)
Good Qualities:
- dress sense (but not over-obsessed): more important for ana than it it for nic
- nice shoes (funky, spunky, fashionable)
- cleans/showers regurly
- nice teeth
- able to deal with problems casually/calmly/with humour – no panic – they can be a man
- confident with strangers and in social situations
- ambitious
- hardworking
- able to have semi intellectual conversations
- likes vegies (ana)
- has a close group of male friends (N – needs mates, not nec really close mates)
- nice body/athletic
- easy going
- no anger issues
- funny
- you can burp in front of (ana)
- being able to deal with emotional issues
- polite/ semi gentleman but not overly formal
- likes food
- interested in politics and current affairs
- generous (ana) and kind
- protective (nic)
- independent and has their own interest
- not overcrowing and allows you to have your own space
- handy man around the house
- not a cold person; someone who is welcoming and friendly and talkative and responds empathetically to social issues (ana)
- can kill spiders/ insects
- can cook/ iron etc
- aren’t mummies boy but still family men
- not pussy drivers
- likes beer
- hair no longer than their ears
- able to grow stubble
- taller than me in heels
- loyal
- suits that fit well
BAD QUALITIES (big no-no)
- serious (ana -- serious = eww)
- emotionally dependent
- financially dependent
- too sooky/ sensitive
- weight issues
- over eater
- bragging about money
- moody
- not an alcoholic but enjoys many social drinks
- hairy back/chest
= smokes all the time (social smoking is ok – ana; nic – once every month, drunkenly, is ok but I refuse to kiss you)
- cuts their toe nails
- doesn’t bite their finger nails
- not intent on imposing body issues on you
-(overly) possessive
- disapproving of you going shopping;
- stingy (but should know how to save)
Thank you for your attention (love nic)
MUHAHAHAHAHAHAHA (love ana)