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to the boys that never came home (huw)

BELGIUM | Tuesday, 23 March 2010 | Views [933] | Comments [2]

The thunder rolled close overhead, echoing around the cavernous, sheltering vault of the Menin Gate. Only nature can provide poignancy like this, breaking the minute silence with a noise like the guns of war. Every night since 1928, at 8pm sharp, the Last Post is played. It is the local people’s tribute to 300,000 Commonwealth soldiers killed within a radius of just few kilometres of the Belgian town of Ieper between 1914 and 1918. Only the Second World War has interrupted the ceremony.

Ever since I was a boy, whenever I hear those lonely tones played, intense shivers have poured from the crown of my head, down my neck, shoulders and back. As we stood listening to the buglers blow, cutting through the silence that engulfed the crowd, I stared straight ahead and felt that creeping tingle again.

The gate itself is a huge brick and limestone arch covered in the names of 54,896 men who died defending the town. Their names are carved in rank and alphabetic order, grouped into the regiments in which they served. Stretching from the high eves down to eye level on panel after panel, their names are cut into these stone plaques because they have no graves. They have no graves because their bodies were mutilated beyond recognition, torn and scattered by explosion.  Unidentifiable, or lost completely, sucked into the Flanders mud that was churned into a hungry swamp by a rainstorm of high explosive. There are as many horrific reasons they are not buried with dignity, as there are names.  I have a relative who is on the Menin Gate. Do you?

Or is yours cut into the stone at Ploegsteert, a smaller, but still heartbreaking edifice a few miles to the south of Ieper? I have a relative remembered there too. Maybe your dead man’s name is a few miles to the north, carved into the walls that cradle the edge of Tyne Cot, the largest Commonwealth cemetery in the world.

Or maybe your relative is one of the marked ones; one of those with their name on a headstone standing over their bones. I went to one of those gravesides as well, where another brother of my blood lies since his life was snuffed out when he was half the age I am now. Davey’s grave bears the inscription, “He died so we might live”. A simple line of scripture: a platitude by modern perspective, but popular at the time. I am no christian, but these lines cut deep into me. Because, if it wasn’t for Davey’s death at a Casualty Clearing Station called Canada Farm, and that of his brother Eddy, two and a half years earlier and a few miles away in Ploegsteert Wood, then I might well not be alive.

My Grandfather was a fit young man who worked the mines of South Wales. By the time he was called to serve he had already lost these two brothers: Davey, only weeks before. His father too had joined up, despite his middle age, serving until he was discharged due to injury. Yet, despite all this, when he was called up, my grandfather, Sam, walked the miles to his medical and back. Not wanting to fight, but willing. Days later, when his call-up papers were delivered, there was a clerical error. They read, “Not fit for military service due to a wooden leg”. He took the papers to the local police station to rectify the error, but the sergeant took one look at them and said, “Forget it Sam. Go home. Your family has given enough.”

So, if first Edwin and then David had not died, my grandfather Samuel would have had to go to the front. He might well then have been another name carved in stone and I would not have stood looking up at his brothers’ names, fighting back the tears.

At eight pm, as those bugled notes rang out under the Menin Gate, I thought of my relatives as I stared straight ahead, my gaze fixed on the wall of names. My resolute stare slowly softened to focus on just one of these names of men I didn’t know, the one exactly in my line of sight. His name? Williams, H.

David T. Williams, Royal Engineers. Died 25/10/1917 age 23

Edwin Williams, Royal Welch Fusiliers. Died 14/01/1915 age 18

William Worthing, King’s Shropshire Light Infantry. Died 25/09/1915 age 23

Comments

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Hi Huw , Very imprest by your story a very mooving account about the Menin Gate, I didn,t realise that you had relations mentioned on it , Hope all goes well on your travels,Love to you both.

  Ray Kemp Mar 26, 2010 7:23 AM

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Hi Huw, Dan forwarded this to me as I accompany our Year 6 children to Ypres and Tyne Cot each year. We also visit Sanctuary Wood where trenches are still in place. I never fail to be moved as the children are too. Although it is far beyond their true understanding they endeavour to empathise and bring their own thoughts and prayers with them to Tyne Cot where we stop our name searching for a few moments of contemplation in amongst the row upon row of pristine headstones the silence broken only by birdsong.
I will read your account to them before we leave I am sure it will help them to appreciate the loss that your family suffered.
Thank you and bon voyage. Liz

  Liz Boniface Mar 30, 2010 7:40 AM

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