Getting married in a foreign land
AUSTRALIA | Friday, 21 May 2010 | Views [552]
Bonjour from Mauritius. It’s done – I am finally a married woman!
Mauritius
is everything the postcards say; it is tropical, picturesque and the
people are amazingly friendly. Those who know us realise that we are
not the ‘5* resort’ type so it has been a bit of a learning experience
for us to be waited on, and we have had to learn how to sit still and do
nothing - but it has been thoroughly enjoyable.
Legends Resort
has been great. Most days begin with a lazy breakfast by the pool
(consisting of more food then I would ever dream of eating at home!), a
cocktail or two by the bar, lounging on the beach with a book, perhaps a
stroll around the grounds, a tennis lesson or a daytrip to somewhere
beautiful (if we feel like we want to exert ourselves) and then a long
lazy dinner.
The lead-up to the wedding went pretty much to schedule. We arrived in Mauritius really early
on
the 19th May and stepped off the plane into 25 degree weather at 7am.
Customs was really quick (we were put in the priority line because of
the wedding dress slung over my arm) and then we were on our way from
the airport (in the far south) to Legends in Grand Gaube (on the
northern tip of the country). We had to wait until 1pm for our room to
be ready but the resort entertained us, gave us a place to shower,
provided a vast array of food and drinks and then pointed us in the
direction of the beach whilst we waited
I booked us a Junior
Suite (one step down from the best Villa in the place) and I am really
glad I did. The room is perfect – with a big balcony overlooking the
beach, an even bigger bed, all inclusive mini-bar and a Jacuzzi that you
can open-up to the sea breeze. We are going to be having breakfast on
the balcony today – it is my favourite spot. The only thing is that
the staff here are too friendly and efficient – they are always coming
by to turn-down the room, restock the mini-bar or to provide soaps and
scented cloths to tuck under the pillow at night... but I can’t really
complain about that!
On the 20th we had to head off to Port Louis
(about 1 hour drive) to attend the Supreme Court and swear our
Affidavits so that we can get married. We LOVED Port Louis! It is an
eclectic mix of elements from other places we have been – the culture of
French/ Indian (but not as overwhelming!), the streets of Malaysia and
even buildings that loosely replicate what we saw in Mexico. The
buildings are a little old and the streets are narrow – that is the real
Mauritius and we were in our element.
The guy that drove us to
the court (I feel terrible that I can’t remember his name!) was really
nice. He loved discussing Mauritian culture and what it is like to be
Hindu with Andrew about showed us a movie on his phone of when he
pierced his entire body with needles as an offering to Shiva – scary
stuff! But he explained that he did it because something good had
happened in his life so it was his way of saying thankyou to his god... I
think I would prefer to send flowers! Haha
The process was so
simple. We went to the Registrar to have our documents checked, went to
the Supreme Court to swear them and then went to the Office of Civil
status to meet our celebrant and make a time for the wedding. We were
all done by noon. It would have been wonderful to spend some more time
in Port Louis and we are considering getting a taxi there on another day
so we can look around.
Our wedding day – May 21 – didn’t start
the usual way. We had a very early start (5.30am)but it wasn’t to have
hair and makeup... we went swimming with Dolphins! There is this
incredible open bay in Tamarin (just south of the capital city) and at
7am it is warm, picturesque and buzzing with life. We joined a small
fleet of speedboats which proceeded to chase this pod of wild Dolphins
all around the bay – it was funny! But the dolphins were obviously used
to it and put on a great show – even the babies were doing flips for
the camera. And when you jump off the boat into this amazingly clear
and warm water and look just underneath the surface to a huge pod of
dolphins... bliss. It was really funny when Andrew did a dive for a
dropped flipper and hit me in the face – I thought I was going to be a
bride with a fat lip!! Thankfully it went down by lunchtime He felt so
guilty! haha
After returning to the Resort we had a quick
breakfast and then Andrew went off for a nap (he had a 24 hour bug so
wanted to rest as much as possible before the ceremony) whilst I had my
hair and makeup done at the spa. By the time we got dressed and popped a
bottle of bubbly it was time to get married! I have to say that
weddings are obviously something that this resort does very well – from
the moment we left our room I didn’t have to think about a thing and it
ran like clockwork. It was perfect and exactly what we wanted. We were
married in the garden in an informal civil ceremony (to Code Napoleon –
Andrew loved that!) and I particularly liked agreeing to the various
parts of the Mauritian legislature that make us promise to give our
children the best and highest education we can provide, rather than the
usual religious vows we are used to hearing - It really suited us!
So
after we were married (and complete with a shower of rice from our
witnesses which the birds came to clear up later – I hope their tummies
were ok!) we sat and had a glass of champagne and some cake before
having photos on the beach and the jetty. That was it. It was so
perfect and exactly what we wanted. I think we grinned like silly
little kids all afternoon!
That night we went back to the garden
where we arranged to have dinner under the stars with our private
waiter, Dinesh (he was also one of our witnesses). We wanted for
nothing and it was so wonderful. Oh, we also stopped by the business
centre to change our status – because it isn’t real until it is on
Fackbook!! haha
Now it is the morning after and we still haven’t
tired of referring to each other as ‘Husband’ and ‘Wife’. Andrew needs
to get used to wearing his ring – I see him playing with it a lot! – but
we couldn’t be happier if we tried. I know that the way we got married
isn’t ‘traditional’ and some people didn’t understand our reasons for
doing it but I am so glad we did. We got married for ourselves in the
way that felt right to us. I can’t imagine going through a ‘usual’
wedding in Australia because I can’t relate to it and it wouldn’t suit
who we are (particularly as we are not religious) – personally, I would
feel really embarrassed to stand up and profess my love to Andrew in
front of everyone we know! I am really happy that our moment was
private. I really respect those that go the traditional route but I
don’t know where you get the stamina – I relaxed for half the day, had
no guests to entertain and I was still exhausted by 10pm! Haha
So
now it is 5.30am and I can’t sleep at all so I am writing this whilst
Andrew watches the BBC. Today we plan to have a lazy breakfast in bed
and then massages at the spa before retiring to the pool for a relax in
the sun – going to be wonderful! We also get the photos today so I look
forward to seeing them. I will be sure to share in the next few days!
Love to all,
Mrs Anita Cripps xxx
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