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AUSTRALIA | Saturday, 15 May 2010 | Views [530] | Comments [4]

Catchphrase: You get what you pay for with a 'free dorm'

Everyone can stop with the sleepless nights... my foot is A-okay! Truely. Apart from still feeling bruised-like it is back to it's fine self. Though because i managed to get another bout of stomach sickness straight after i haven't really had a reprieve from antibiotics... until yesterday! Now i am free at last! I am an excited thing.

Phnom Penh happenings:

So the first day my foot was slightly better i went with my fellow backpackers Ulrike and Richard to see a few historical sights around Phnom Penh. The first place was S-21, a high school-turned-prison where the Khmer Rouge tortured and imprisoned thousands of men, women and children. After "confessing" to treason, all were sent out of town to the killings fields, where they were brutally executed. It was a strange thing, because i knew what had happened, read about it, watched documentaries. But seeing the remains of hundreds of people around S-21 and the killing fields, their bones piled together, I realized how recent and immediate these events were. It's distressing, but still important to see.

I spent the next two days volunteering at Sunflower Orphanage, who look after seventeen children between nine and sixteen who have had HIV from birth. At the orphanage they get the medication they need, so they're all still fairly healthy. And cheeky to boot! It was so much fun to play with them for the morning. In the afternoon the volunteers go to the front of the National Museum or the Royal Palace and fund raise for the orphanage. It was lovely to raise money and give a little something to help out. If you're in Siam Reap ever you should drop in!

Kampot happenings:

We decided to leave the bright lights of Phnom Penh for the sleepy little town of Kampot that had been so highly recommended to us. When we first got into town the guesthouse we had picked was too expensive for the likes of us, so when a guy on a motorbike told us he could take us to his cheap guesthouse for free, we thought that was a pretty good deal. (By the way, his name is Darin, if you ever meet him.)He took us to a hotel on the outskirts and then started with the offers to take us on tours, even around town to bars and restaurants. We're fairly capable of doing that ourselves, and we said so. But he had already made up his mind that we were his "clients" to look after. This was the beginning of a few very uncomfortable days in Kampot. The next day when we tried to leave the hotel for a better one, the hostess was already on the phone to him. He arrived a minute later, asking us where we were going. We said we were meeting friends at another guesthouse. He then insisted on giving us a lift to the new hotel, and there was no way out of it without a scene. By a stroke of luck, i burnt my leg on the exhaust as i was getting off the motorbike - a handy excuse i used later to never go on his motorbike again.

I didn't get to see much of Kampot, because every time we left our guesthouse we met Darin, and we'd have to decline his offers to take us out somewhere for ten minutes. Each time we said no he was getting more frustrated and angry, so we decided to leave early the next morning. I was in teh middle of buying our bus tickets out of there when Darin found us, how i have no idea. He got real angry, called us liars and god knows what else, right in front of everyone on the street. We left pretty soon after that.

Sihanoukville happenings:

The beach! I was pretty excited to swim in something other than the Mekong for once. The beach bungalows were a whopping $US25 an night, but we got word of a 'free dorm' at a bar called Utopia. The price was right so we dumped our stuff there and went to the beach. We hadn't sat for two seconds before we were surrounded by beachworkers, asking if we wanted anything from harmless fruit to getting our legs waxed. ON THE BEACH. WITH STRING. An effective selling technique (apparently) is to tell us how hairy our legs are, that we would never get boyfriends EVER unless we had smooth legs, and then start to remove the hair before we had time to say no. Not your typical day at the beach.

After we survived the first onslaught, four girls wanted to sell us bracelets. After saying we didn't want anything for ten minutes they decided we needed 'free', 'friendship' bracelets, which we also said we didn't want. After 15 minutes it got nasty. One girl started a tantrum with tears, another said that if i didn't give her money she wouldn't leave me alone all day. One was swearing at us in Khmer and English. I couldn't believe how how quickly they became so bitter and angry. It's upsetting, that they're young and exploited, and so desperate for money they will say and try anything. I don't give money to children, and i try not to act interested in wares that i do not want. But it's still difficult sometimes.

So we got what we paid for with the 'free' dorm. Apparently monday nights at Utopia GO OFF and so we went to sleep in the wee hours to Cambodia's top house/mashup DJ. Oh yes. And did i mention that the dorm was actually a garage too? No? It was a hilarious if not restful night.

Siam Reap happenings:

ANGKOR...

my

goodness

!

It was mindblowingly awesome. Expensive, but awesome. The best thing we did was to hire a guide for the day, who not only told us really interesting facts and legends regarding the temples, but also pointed out strangely shiny parts on the celestial nymph statues, caused by men rubbing them inappropriately. He was great value.

To avoid temple overload, we watched the sunrise (5:30!) over Angkor Wat, then spent the rest of the morning exploring around Ankor Thom, the ancient city centre. In the afternoon we swung by the aesthetic but overcrowded Ta Phrom, the one famously overgrown with massive trees. This was my all-time favourite, but really seeing the forest reclaim anything rocks my socks. Then we entered Angkor Wat from the eastern entrance and did a fair amount of exploring there too.

It's a wonderfully spectacular place. We were lucky enough not only to be here in the low season - although the heat can get pretty unbearable - but to also have one savvy guide, who helped us avoid the worst of the tourist congestion. And now i've been to one of the seven wonders of the world! High fives all round...

It is a sad affair, with Grace and i finally going our separate ways after nearly three months. I didn't think anyone could put up with me for that long, let alone still talk to me! But she's a gem :) I'm trying to keep my jealousy in check while wishing her the safest and raddest of travels... and hoping she finds her way back to Melbourne soon! Even if it's just for the fruit trees.

So that's all for Cambodia! I'm off tomorrow on another epic bus/train/bus ride from Siam Reap to Phuket. And also, unavoidably, Bangkok. It'd seemed to settle there for a while but of course, as soon as i bought my tickets, things changed again. I am a bit nervous but as long as i stay away from the center of town, and not wear certain coloured articles of clothing, i should be fine and dandy!

Anyway wish me luck!

xxx mel

Comments

1

You'll be ok. Sounds like there's a tight cordon around the protest area, so it's unlikely to come near you. Bad news - I thought they'd managed to start a reconciliation.

BTW how exactly do you wax your legs with string? I am but a simple man, and these things are foreign to me, but still...string?

  Flash May 16, 2010 12:02 PM

2

It is too difficult to describe with words. When i get home i can show you if you like :) Seriously, though, you couldn't have left yourself more open for that comeback.

  Mel May 20, 2010 4:14 AM

3

Yow.

The sting from that comeback was totally eclipsed by the imagery of having my legs waxed. With string.

I'm actually feeling pain right now.

  Flash May 21, 2010 10:58 AM

4

Sounds like u ar having a lousy time, how will u cope with coming back to the real world lol Yeah that Darin and his spy brigade no wonder we didn't win the war over there. Are you now travelling on ur own? Well Mel keep having a horrible time wish I was there instead of having a horrible time here lol. Keep safe miss u xx cass.

  Cassa May 25, 2010 1:58 PM

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