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    <title>The Perfectly Imperfect Journey</title>
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      <title>The Colorful Nayuh Tradition, The Sai Batin Coronation Ceremony of Suntan Raja Hukum II</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;It was 11 am when me and my friend, Qyoko, reached the beautiful house decorated in red and gold. Compare to the others, the house stood out like a metal in the sand reflecting the sunlight. &amp;nbsp;Unlike in the cities, the houses in this sub-urban area have no number. We were told by Jarwo, the person who was responsible for this incidental trip, to take the first left turn after the gate of &amp;ldquo;&lt;em&gt;Selamat Datang di Kota Agung&lt;/em&gt;&amp;rdquo; (Welcome to&lt;em&gt; Kota Agung&lt;/em&gt;) and keep going until we found the house. He insisted that we would definitely recognize it once we saw it. Well, he is right&amp;hellip;we did.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img title="Me &amp;amp; Qyoko in front of the House" src="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=732405023447981&amp;amp;set=yo.554057493.2014&amp;amp;type=1&amp;amp;theater" alt="This is a special umbrella that was put in the middle of the gate to welcome the guest but it also has a meaning to protect. The gold embos symbolize a women's crown called 'Siger'." /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img title="Red and Gold Decorations, symbols of Wealth and Good Fortune" src="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10152518941372494&amp;amp;set=pcb.10152518945982494&amp;amp;type=1&amp;amp;theater" alt="Again umbrella is use in the decaoration along with gold and red ornaments." /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img title="The Couple's Throne" src="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10152518942637494&amp;amp;set=pcb.10152518945982494&amp;amp;type=1&amp;amp;theater" alt="This is where the bride and the groom sit during the wedding ceremony accompanied by the parents in both sides" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It was my first day in Lampung , the southest province in the Sumatera Island in Indonesia, and also was my first trip crossing the Sunda Strait. I was greeted by an old acquaintance, Qyoko, who apparently kindly enough to welcome me and let me stay at her place during my visit. I met her and another old acquaintance, Jarwo, almost a year ago on the war ship during our activities in Sail Komodo 2013, where we along with approximately 400 youths of Indonesia sailed to Komodo Island in East Nusa Tenggara. That morning, Qyoko and I were planning to spend the day in the city and visit Lampung&amp;rsquo;s Museum. We were about to asked Jarwo to join us when coincidentally, he phoned us and asked if we would like to join him doing interview for the local newspaper about the tradition of &lt;em&gt;Nayuh, &lt;/em&gt;the Coronation Ceremony of &lt;em&gt;Sai Batin Suntan &lt;/em&gt;(King of &lt;em&gt;Sai Batin&lt;/em&gt;) in a village in &lt;em&gt;Kota Agung&lt;/em&gt;. &lt;em&gt;Nayuh &lt;/em&gt;is a very rare occasion and happens only once every 20-30 years. It was very lucky of me that during my visit, &lt;em&gt;Sai Batin &lt;/em&gt;people held the tradition. Got very interested, Qyoko and I delayed our plan and hopped up to her motorcycle to start the ride to &lt;em&gt;Kota Agung&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;During the 1,5 hour ride, we passed 3 &lt;em&gt;kabupaten&lt;/em&gt; (an administration area with equal territory as a city) and 120 kilometers of bumpy road. When we arrived, it was a very hot afternoon and our bottoms were numbed L. Approaching the beautiful house, we heard, through speakers, the &lt;em&gt;pemimpin adat &lt;/em&gt;(tribe leader) spoke in rhyme in Lampung&amp;rsquo;s traditional language. Apparently, the ceremony had started since morning. Later on, I was informed that he was saying a grace in traditional poetry while crowning the new king and queen. Now, I know why, even if I didn&amp;rsquo;t understand the meaning of the words, I could still enjoy the &amp;lsquo;song&amp;rsquo; of it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img title="Selamat Datang (Welcome)" src="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10152518943932494&amp;amp;set=pcb.10152518945982494&amp;amp;type=1&amp;amp;theater" alt="The welcome cloth was put in front of the coronation house to welcome the important guests." /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img title="Red and Gold of the Coronation House" src="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10152518944682494&amp;amp;set=pcb.10152518945982494&amp;amp;type=1&amp;amp;theater" alt="Inside the coronation house. There are different colors of cloth hanging on the wall. Those cloths was brought by different people from different village." /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img title="The Coronation Throne" src="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10152518945287494&amp;amp;set=pcb.10152518945982494&amp;amp;type=1&amp;amp;theater" alt="This is where the coronation process was held." /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;There are a lot of interesting things about this &lt;em&gt;Nayuh&lt;/em&gt; tradition. The whole processions were held for a week in which specific ceremonies held in every day. We came on the 6&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt; day. It was almost the last day of the procession but also had the most important session, the crowning. I was informed that the previous events were greeting ceremony to welcome the relative tribe from other villages, the wedding celebration of the new king and queen, and the bathing ceremony, which held yesterday, where the previous king and queen were dethroned.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Different with the coronation process in many countries which usually held after the previous king passed away, the &lt;em&gt;Nayuh &lt;/em&gt;tradition in Lampung is held after the new king married the queen and the procession started with the abdication ceremony of the previous king and queen. After the coronation, the king and queen will receive a title which represent their character or the role that they will hold during their era. The new king was titled as &lt;em&gt;Suntan Raja Hukum II. &lt;/em&gt;Heinherited the title from the previous king, &lt;em&gt;Suntan Raja Hukum I&lt;/em&gt; in which &lt;em&gt;Raja Hukum &lt;/em&gt;means leader of the law.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;After the coronation, it was the time for the feast which was definitely one of the best moments ;). Beside the delicious food, there was also something interesting about how the event was proceeded. It was definitely like a huge feast where a lot of people sat together, eating and chatting, except it was specialized only for the men, for women, and in the night, for the youngsters.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img title="The Feast Preparation" src="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10152518944782494&amp;amp;set=pcb.10152518945982494&amp;amp;type=1&amp;amp;theater" alt="The feast was held on the long white cloth-table. Each section was prepared for 4 people." /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img title="The Women's Feast" src="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10152518945602494&amp;amp;set=pcb.10152518945982494&amp;amp;type=1&amp;amp;theater" alt="Only the king and queen's family are allowed to have the feast inside the coronation house" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img title="The Women's Feast" src="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10152518942037494&amp;amp;set=pcb.10152518945982494&amp;amp;type=1&amp;amp;theater" alt="While on the outside..." /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img title="The Women's Feast" src="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10152518941792494&amp;amp;set=pcb.10152518945982494&amp;amp;type=1&amp;amp;theater" alt="During the women's feast, the men were the one who prepared and served the meals." /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The feast was divided into 3 session, first, feast only for the&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;bapak-bapak&lt;/em&gt;. It was hard for me to find other words in English.&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;Bapak-bapak&lt;/em&gt;&amp;nbsp;means men who had been married. Since the first feast is for the men so the&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;ibu-ibu&amp;nbsp;&lt;/em&gt;(their spouse) are the one who did the preparation and then served it. After that, the second feast was held only for&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;ibu-ibu&lt;/em&gt;, women who had been married. Now is the time when the&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;bapak-bapak&amp;nbsp;&lt;/em&gt;prepared the feast and served their spouse. The meal was cooked from the ingredients and raw food that was brought by the people who come. In here, they used the&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;hutang&amp;nbsp;&lt;/em&gt;(debt) concept, so whenever there are big occasion (marriage, give birth, death ceremony, and others) they will bring the snacks or food or ingredients as a &amp;lsquo;gift&amp;rsquo; for the host. The host will keep tab all the &amp;lsquo;gift&amp;rsquo; that each person brought and when that person holding a ceremony, he/she will bring the same &amp;lsquo;gift&amp;rsquo;. To make sure that each &amp;lsquo;gift&amp;rsquo; is noted correctly, they cover it with the special clothing that was hand-made and sewn with the name of the family head. I love how colorful it is.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img title="The Colorful &amp;quot;Gift&amp;quot; Covers" src="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10152518942877494&amp;amp;set=pcb.10152518945982494&amp;amp;type=1&amp;amp;theater" alt="The guy is taking his utensils after the whole process of coronation finished, including the unique cloth to cover the gifts." /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img title="The Colorful &amp;quot;Gift&amp;quot; Covers" src="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10152518943162494&amp;amp;set=pcb.10152518945982494&amp;amp;type=1&amp;amp;theater" alt="To avoid miss-taking home the covers, they sewn the name of the head of the family on the covers." /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img title="The Colorful &amp;quot;Gift&amp;quot; Cover" src="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10152518943477494&amp;amp;set=pcb.10152518945982494&amp;amp;type=1&amp;amp;theater" alt="Another beautiful cloth." /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img title="The Colorful &amp;quot;Gift&amp;quot; Covers" src="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10152518944537494&amp;amp;set=pcb.10152518945982494&amp;amp;type=1&amp;amp;theater" alt="I guess black and gold create a nice combinations." /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The last, but not the least, is the feast for the &lt;em&gt;bujang gadis&lt;/em&gt; or youngsters who haven&amp;rsquo;t married. Long time ago, &lt;em&gt;bujang gadis&lt;/em&gt; is the most awaited feast among the youngsters because youth from other villages will come too so it was a great chance for the guys to meet the girls from another village and vice versa. It was also known for the time to find your spouse-to-be because after the feast, there was &lt;em&gt;pantun &lt;/em&gt;(traditional Malay poem which are metaphoric and rhythmic) battles. The battle was between the guys and the girls, in which reciprocally they will make &lt;em&gt;pantun &lt;/em&gt;for the other side to show their capabilities and qualities in knowledge and bravery. The guy or the girl with the best &lt;em&gt;pantun &lt;/em&gt;will be admired by the others and considered as a high quality bachelor or bachelorette.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Unfortunately, I couldn&amp;rsquo;t stay until the night to see how the &lt;em&gt;bujang gadis &lt;/em&gt;went L or even got into battle. Who know, I might found someone&amp;hellip;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img title="On the couple's throne" src="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10152518940792494&amp;amp;set=pcb.10152518945982494&amp;amp;type=1&amp;amp;theater" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2014 19:24:00 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Photos: Journey to Lampung, Bumi Ruwat Jurai</title>
      <description>Lampung, the Southest Province in Sumatra Island. Lampung  is separated to Java Island by the Sunda Strait and is very well-known for the still-preserved elephant population in elephant school, Way Kambas. </description>
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      <title>A Perfectly Imperfect Journey</title>
      <description>“I am no longer afraid of becoming lost, because the journey back always reveals something new”&lt;br/&gt;Billy Joel&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Sometimes, we take time off from our job and plan a long holiday journey. How many of it ended in a disaster? I try my best to avoid one. However, when a disastrous holiday happens, it is always nice to have something good coming out of it.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;It started with, "I missed the train!". &lt;br/&gt;I was about to go back to my village in Gobang-Lebak when I got to the station 5 minutes late. The train had left at 3.45 and apparently, there is only one train available everyday so I was officially stuck there for another day. &lt;br/&gt;It was Syawal, a good Islamic month for pilgrimage journey to the tomb of Banten Monarch. I was never been in one so I decided to visit it during my 3 days holiday. I took the train and arrived at Karangantu station at 12. Karangantu is taken from the words 'karang' (corals) and 'hantu' (ghost). The name piqued my interest, however nobody knows why it is named that way. &lt;br/&gt;I took 'angkot', a public car. After 15 minutes, I stepped on to what is left of The 'Kasultanan Banten'. Standing in front of me, a beautiful white coloured Masjid Agung Banten, the symbol of Demak Kingdom. It was built by the first Sultan, Maulana Hasanudin. What's interesting, the shape of the tower is similar to Chinese Pagoda. Later on, I found out that it was designed by a Chinese man, Tjek Ban Tjut.&lt;br/&gt;The masjid was huge. It took 1 1/2 hour to walk it all. Despite of crowd of  thousands people, there was these calmness that was hard to describe, a spiritual calm of a sacred place. &lt;br/&gt;I continued my walk and went to the museum where I met Mr. Bangkong, who had worked there for 10 years. We had a knowledge-opening chat about Banten Lama and was so into it when I realized that I almost late. At 3.30, I said good bye, ran as fast as I could, and caught the 'angkot' to go back to the station but it was too late. &lt;br/&gt;Fortunately, Mr. Bangkong offered me a ride to Serang, a city nearby, to find a place to stay. It was so nice of him, he also took me to the other historical sites that quite far. The Surosoan - Spellwijk Castle, the first Avalokitesvara Vihara, and The Kaibon Palace are the places that I would missed if I didn't stay. The ride was so fun that missing the train weren't even a bother. We ended the journey with a nice dinner at the street food stall, eating Empal Gepuk', a specialty from Banten Lama.&lt;br/&gt;I guess, Billy Joel was right. The journey back did reveal something new.</description>
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